Collaborative Divorce
You may find yourself at an unexpected crossroads—facing or planning for divorce. This period often brings anxiety, stress, and uncertainty. Whether the decision was made by you or by your partner, concerns about what comes next can weigh heavily: your future, your children, your broader family, your finances and estate, and the fear of a contentious court battle.
A different approach.
If you want to heal from pain and resentment—and end your marriage with dignity and mutual respect—the Collaborative Divorce approach could be the right path. It focuses on maintaining a functional, healthy co-parenting relationship and reducing upheaval for your children, no matter their age.
What is “Collaborative Divorce?”
A confidential, settlement-centered option for divorce and related legal issues that avoids traditional litigation and the damaging effects of adversarial conflict.
The collaborative process assembles an interdisciplinary team—each spouse is represented by a specially trained attorney, and the team includes a neutral financial professional and a neutral mental health professional.
Guided by a tested problem-solving framework, the team leads confidential settlement sessions scheduled and paced according to your needs.
The aim is to create practical, lasting agreements that align with the priorities you and your family have established. In this model, I act as the Neutral Mental Health Professional or, when indicated, as the Child Specialist on your collaborative team.
The role of a Mental Health Professional (MHP)
I offer continuous guidance throughout the divorce process, helping you stay steady as decisions are made. I address the emotional hurdles that frequently arise, providing calm, practical support.
I coordinate and lead joint sessions, ensuring communication among team members is clear and productive.
Between meetings, I collaborate with you to build the foundation for a respectful, cooperative post-divorce relationship.
When children are involved, I help design a tailored parenting plan that reflects your family's specific needs.
The role of a Child Specialist (CS)
I act as the child’s representative to the family and collaborative team, helping ensure decisions are informed by the child’s perspective. I meet with children across the age range—young, adolescent, and adult—to learn their needs, concerns, and preferences.
I provide age-appropriate education about divorce to promote healthier adjustment after separation.
I join joint sessions with the collaborative team or meet with you and the neutral mental health professional as needed.
When appropriate, I contribute to shaping the post-divorce parenting plan.
Additional Resources
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